Intimidation � Using implied or veiled threats about withholding their love or leaving.
Guilt-tripping � Implying the partner is not caring enough or is too self-centered. This works especially well with more conscientious people.
Shaming � Putting down, insulting and using sarcasm to make the other person feel inadequate. This way they stay in power as the other person weakens.
Charm � A good controller is always seductive and knows how to be flattering at times in order to reel in their partner and bind her more tightly to him.
Turning the tables � They will claim that they in fact are the victim and are being put upon, to deflect any blame or confrontation and further induce guilt in their partner.
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